Let it go and let it be!!!

    Today while watching a video on letting go I was wondering what exactly does this letting go means to me!! In the initial phase it brought up an overwhelming feeling it wasn’t hurt nor was it pain it was a feeling of acceptance. It’s like a realisation that strikes you that it is time to let someone or some situations some beliefs that we hold on to let go. It’s time maybe to acknowledge the fading that happens in the process of letting go!! Some things that we hold so close to our heart some memories we hold close by have started to fade. It’s so important to acknowledge the time has come to move away from them or to be very precise allowing yourself to move away from them.

   The phase of letting go is so crucial to build the next phase of our life. We all consider to let something go as an ending but I feel it’s more of a breakthrough to let the divine plan take its course. Ever ending is like collapsing of all the walls we so carefully build over time, but we forget with every fall we create more space for the divine to flow. I realised to let go of something is like the shedding of leaves, every year the nature sheds itself and waits for the new to grow. This wait is where we need to let the grace in. Waiting is patience and the belief that this is it that is best for me right now. It’s not delay or waiting for something better it just is. Tree doesn’t say now that I have shed myself I’m waiting for some much better leaves to grow it believes that this phase is must for him not for better leaves not for anything else. It’s just present with itself in those moments of shedding experiencing it to the fullest. 

   Letting go taught me acceptance towards life and everything and everyone present in my life. Acceptance of the role every individual plays in our life. Acceptance that force isn’t the answer. Acceptance that we are bigger than everything that happens in our life. Acceptance that people leave may not be because we don’t like each other but because they just choose to leave and maybe that is also the best for everyone in the situation. Acceptance that everyone’s soul knows what is best for them to do at that very moment in their life’s journey. Every moment we are out growing something or someone and someone is out growing us. So people ask me how do we let go?? To let go we need to believe that this is the best choice we can make at this moment in our life. We need to believe that we did everything in our power to work through it not change it but work through it and releasing the person or the situation is the best option left. Is it that easy yes if we are convinced that this is it than this is it!!! 

   We all at some point were scared of endings thinking endings bring pain yes they do bring us pain of not seeing someone, pain of not hearing from them, pain of the moments we spent together; but sometimes we forget the happiness of letting things be maybe even acknowledging the pain and allowing it to subside on it’s own. So here comes my further realisation letting go is letting things be just the way they are!!! Letting them choose their course. I’m not saying don’t put efforts I’m saying once you are convinced you did what you had to choose to let things be!! Maybe by doing so we let the control and our ego mind on the sidelines and let our heart take the charge. We want to hold on because our ego wants to control once we let go of the control we don’t feel the need to change anything in that moment as everything is just perfectly aligned for us. Let’s choose to let things be just the way they are supposed to be for us bringing in more harmony and peace.

 

 

Love and light to all!!